Sari Cooper Sex Therapist-Coach-Expert

Sari Cooper Sex Therapist-Coach-Expert Sari Cooper is Director of Center for Love and S*x, a boutique practice offering general therapy, cou

Sari Cooper is the Director of Center for Love and S*x, NYC is a full service therapy practice that specializes in s*xual issues, couples therapy, infidelity, out of control s*xual behavior, pelvic pain & erectile disorder. Our therapists are highly experienced, accessible clinicians who help clients and couples recover from s*xual avoidance, past s*xual harassment or abuse, and affairs. She is also the Founder of S*x Esteem, LLC a company offering coaching, talks, workshops and media partnerships.

11/01/2025

What is your Halloween costume telling you about yourself or your partner? *xEsteem *xtherapy

10/10/2025

On this I encourage folks struggling to seek out help for their mental health through local and national resources like . Check out my new S*x Esteem®️ Blog titled: World Mental Health Day: Why S*xual Health Matters on the studies and clinical insight on the two-way connection between one’s mental health challenges and one’s s*xual health, desire and relationships. If you or your loved one is suffering through a mental health crisis, call or text 988 Su***de & Crisis Lifeline.

International Female Or**sm Day is more than just an awareness campaign. It’s a meaningful invitation for ALL therapists...
08/21/2025

International Female Or**sm Day is more than just an awareness campaign. It’s a meaningful invitation for ALL therapists to support pleasure equity in our work.

Many women arrive in our Center for Love and S*x s*x therapy sessions with questions they’ve never felt comfortable asking their friends, their moms, their sisters and their general therapists:

💫“Is it normal that I’ve never had an or**sm?”
💫“Why do I feel disconnected from my body during s*x?”
💫“How do I tell my partner what feels good?”
💫 “Why is it so hard to have an or**sm during s*x (their definition of s*x like most people=vaginal pe*******on, while to a s*xuality educated therapist s*x is everything that one can do that excites using our bodies!)

These questions reflect something bigger: the longstanding OR**SM gap in s*x education, s*xploration, and partnered curiosity and encouragement when it comes to female pleasure when engaging in heteros*xual s*x.

As s*x therapists, we can help close the or**sm gap by guiding clients toward:

💡 Body literacy - learning how arousal works and what turns them on.
📖 Or**sm education - understanding the different ways or**sm can be achieved.
💬 Empowered communication - building the confidence to express needs and preferences.
🔄 Gentle exploration - encouraging clients to embrace connection, curiosity, and pleasure.

This type of approach isn’t just about or**sms - promoting pleasure equality also helps build S*X ESTEEM® leading to higher self-esteem, more empowered s*xual agency, and greater relationship satisfaction.

➡️Save this post for practical tools on promoting pleasure equality.

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August is National Romance Awareness Month - if you’re a GenXer or even a Baby Boomer, you might think that August and s...
08/19/2025

August is National Romance Awareness Month - if you’re a GenXer or even a Baby Boomer, you might think that August and summertime in general is a great time to meet someone in real life and start a summer romance, right? Maybe you have memories of your own summer flings or relationships that you cultivated at a summer job, camp, while lifeguarding at the local pool or swimming pond. It might surprise you to know that according to a survey conducted by the Survey Center on American Life, only 56 percent of Gen Z adults—and 54 percent of Gen Z men—said they were involved in a romantic relationship at any point during their teenage years.

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07/30/2025

Big day tomorrow I It’s official. Signed at 8:10am. It was even on TV. Don't forget that tomorrow starts the new Facebook rule (aka... new name, META) where they can use your photos. Don't forget the deadline is today!!!
Hold your finger anywhere in this message and “copy” will appear. Click “copy”. Then go to your page, create a new post and place your finger anywhere in the empty field. “Paste” will appear and click Paste.
This will bypass the system….
She who does nothing consents
According to the show 60 Minutes:
Just in case you missed it: a lawyer advised us to post this. The violation of privacy can be punished by law NOTE: Facebook Meta is now a public entity. Every member must post a note like this. If you do not publish a statement at least once, it will be technically understood that you are allowing the use of your photos, as well as the information contained in your profile status updates.
I HEREBY DECLARE THAT I DO NOT GIVE MY PERMISSION FOR FACEBOOK OR META TO USE ANY OF MY PERSONAL DATA.

Did you know the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) was first signed into law in 1990?Now, 35 years on, its goals are...
07/11/2025

Did you know the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) was first signed into law in 1990?
Now, 35 years on, its goals are to provide a vital framework for ethical, inclusive healthcare for folks with visible and invisible disabilities. While there have been recent changes to some of the requirements to this federal law, the main mission of the ADA has remained intact.

As a Certified S*x Therapist & Supervisor and Founder of Center for Love and S*x, I go a step further. CLS Certified S*x therapists are trained to ask detailed questions on the kind of s*xual life their clients are having and the kind of life they desire including specificities around positions, maneovering from one position to another, needing physical supports like a wedge, a specialized chair, an extension accessory for a s*x toy, etc. We provide exercises to folks who have difficulty reading social cues in order to increase clients’ skill in flirtation, banter, asking for a date, and talking about consent at each step of a s*xual encounter. S*x therapy centers not just on treating mood disorders and relational couples’ communication skills but on offering accurate, science-backed s*xual education and supportive treatment based on our clients’ lived experiences and their stated desired s*xual goals.

To me, true equality in s*x therapy is about expanding opportunities for education, exploration, and pleasure. It’s about recognising and addressing the unique barriers many disabled people face when expressing their s*xuality - from addressing ableist attitudes and assumptions in the medical and therapeutic fields, to overcoming societal barriers and accessing s*xual health resources. And it’s about supporting people with disabilities to address these challenges so that they can enjoy better, more fulfilling s*x lives.

Because access is just the beginning, and experience is the end goal.

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🏳️‍🌈 PSA: Pride Month is not just about having your sh*t figured out!Some of my favorite Pride conversations happen with...
06/23/2025

🏳️‍🌈 PSA: Pride Month is not just about having your sh*t figured out!

Some of my favorite Pride conversations happen with clients who say things like: “I think I’m gay but also I married my opposite-gender best friend?” “Does pans*xual cover my attraction to people’s energy more than their bodies?” “I feel q***r but I’ve never dated anyone?”

Plot twist: You don’t need to have a perfectly polished coming-out story or a label that fits like a glove to belong in this celebration.
Pride is for the figuring-it-outers, the label-switchers, the “it’s complicated” folks, and yes, the people who’ve known exactly who they are since they were 3.
Your journey toward authenticity is valid if it’s: 📈 Linear 🎢 Roller-coaster-y
🌊 Fluid AF 🔄 Still in progress ❓ TBD

To my fellow therapists: Let’s normalize not having all the answers while still creating wildly affirming spaces. Our “Unlabeled Desires” course will help. It includes:
3 AASECT + 6 NYS CE credits (because we love our letters)
Live case consultation where we’ll unpack the good stuff together
Unlimited replays (for when you need to hear “that makes total sense” again)

Real talk about religious trauma, compulsory heteros*xuality, and why shame is the worst party crasher.

Link in bio to sign up today!

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📣 JUNE EROTIC INTIMACY ACADEMY ANNOUNCEMENT 📣Beyond the checkboxes and categories lies a universe of human desire and id...
05/27/2025

📣 JUNE EROTIC INTIMACY ACADEMY ANNOUNCEMENT 📣

Beyond the checkboxes and categories lies a universe of human desire and identity waiting to be explored.

This June, the Erotic Intimacy Academy invites you to join us for “Unlabeled Desires: A Deep Dive into Gender and Orientation” – an immersive exploration of identity beyond traditional categorizations.
Learn from decades of clinical experience working with individuals across the gender and s*xuality spectrum, offering a nuanced, compassionate approach to these complex topics.

Link in bio to secure your spot and for complete program details.

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They might not leap tall buildings in a single bound, but pelvic floor physical therapists perform miracles that can fee...
05/06/2025

They might not leap tall buildings in a single bound, but pelvic floor physical therapists perform miracles that can feel just as impressive when you’ve been suffering for years.

These unsung healthcare heroes specialize in the muscles that everyone has but few people discuss—the ones that can make sitting through a movie, enjoying intimacy, or even just laughing without worry possible again.

Why haven’t you heard more about them? Most doctors receive less than one hour of s*xual health training during their entire medical education. (Yes, you read that correctly. ONE HOUR.)

These specialists help people of all genders with:
* “I can’t hold it” problems
* “It hurts when I...” problems
* “Something feels off down there” problems
* “Ever since the baby/surgery/accident...” problems

In my practice, I’ve seen pelvic floor PTs transform lives after clients had been told for years to “just live with it.” Their patients often ask: “Why didn’t anyone tell me about this sooner?”

Consider this me telling you sooner. Tag a Pelvic Floor PT hero!

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