01/24/2026
Does this sound familiar:
“I’ll feel feminine when I meet the right guy.”
“I’ll soften when I’m loved and in love.”
There's only a little truth to that. In the beginning, a man can activate your femininity. You soften. You glow. You feel turned on.
Because polarity, novelty, desire, pursuit… it lights something up in you.
BUT‼️
If you don’t know how to cultivate your femininity on your own…
it fades the deeper you go into the relationship.
And that’s where most relationships start breaking.
Because femininity is not a vibe.
It’s not a look.
It’s not “being soft” for a man.
Femininity is a SKILL.
It’s something you learn, cultivate and practice until it becomes your lifestyle.
That’s why you need it in every stage:
💃🏻 If you’re SINGLE: your feminine expression is what drives your life that feels fulfilled and resourced.
So you don’t walk through your days like you’re just surviving.
So you know who you are as a woman, not just as a doer.
👩❤️💋👨 If you’re DATING: you being rooted in your feminine is what prevents you from getting attached too fast.
Because the moment you cling, your energy shifts.
You stop choosing and start chasing.
And men feel that instantly and that breaks the polarity and attraction.
👩🏾🤝👨🏿 And if you’re in a RELATIONSHIP, this is where it matters most.
Because your default as a woman is to start pouring and nurturing. You start managing everything.
And if you don’t have a feminine practice that’s yours, you slowly shrink and disappear.
Not because he stopped loving you.
Not because something “broke.”
But because your entire system shifts into maintenance mode.
And maintenance mode doesn’t create desire.
It creates tension. It creates distance. It creates “we’re fine” energy where you're neglected more and more.
Until one day you realize you’re living with a man you love… as roommates.
That’s why your femininity can’t depend on a man.
It has to be something you know how to turn on from the inside.
This is exactly why I created the Feminine Throne Method that I now teach.
January 27th @ 8pm ET via Zoom + lifetime replay access.
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