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10/31/2025

šŸŽƒ BOO-njour, lovers of lanterns, l@bia, lingums, and laughter! šŸ‘»

The annual Moon-halko, Timelapse, Jack-o-lantern carving showdown between Allison Moon and ReidAboutS*x is BACK!

Every October, GirlS*x101 and Getting It! author Allison Moon and Reid Mihalko test our relationship trust by handing each other sharp objects and saying, ā€œGo wild, babe!ā€

Our annual jack-o-lantern ritual is equal parts art, splosh-fest, and couples therapy with knives.

Because couples who carve together… slay together. šŸ”ŖšŸ§”šŸ”„

Here’s to love that glows from the inside out, a little messy magic, and partners who know how to handle your… tools!

Check out this insight on being ā€œslutty AND slowā€ below... Ticket sales end TOMORROW night for this popular workshop Mis...
10/21/2025

Check out this insight on being ā€œslutty AND slowā€ below...
Ticket sales end TOMORROW night for this popular workshop Misha Bonaventura and I are teaching… 6 Weeks… Over 400 amazing, like-minded humans, have taken part… Come join us!
Class is getting rave reviews... Like this one from last week’s Q&A/Coaching Class:
ā€œBeing slutty meant going fast. Being slutty meant not making an emotional connection. Being slutty meant not paying attention to my internal signals. Part of that came from family stuff. Some of that came from societal messages. And there’s part of me that wanted to push back against that Puritanical, being a good girl stuff. I wanted to be a little slutty. But in pushing back against that, I adopted this model of going fast. And the idea that I can be slutty AND slow is a mind-blowing thing. I can actually listen to myself, take my time, make intentional choices, communicate clearly with the other person — And still take up all the space I need to create the s*xual world I want. THAT is what I want slutty to mean. That’s my realization from thisā€
~Kristi McC, Boulder CO
We’re still allowing people to join until Wed, Oct 22rd at 4:30pm’ish PDT... So if you’d like to jump in, please do so ASAP. Please buy at the level you can afford. All classes are recorded, we have handouts, and a Community Forum for classmates. Also included are the LIVE Group Coaching calls, which have already begun (you only missed one, BTW!). Check the comments for how to join.

Ticket sales end THIS Tue night for this popular workshop Misha Bonaventura and I are teaching… 6 Weeks… Over 300 amazin...
10/16/2025

Ticket sales end THIS Tue night for this popular workshop Misha Bonaventura and I are teaching… 6 Weeks… Over 300 amazing, like-minded humans, have taken part… Come join us!

Class 1 has been getting rave reviews:
"I really liked the first class. Fun and playful. Liked the way you set it up. The structure. I really appreciate the dynamic between you two as well. The content is very familiar to me (as it's the work I do too in a way) I had just coached a client in a similar way to clarify his wants/desires/projections/and self-awareness around dating and attunement."

"I'm referring lots of friends to this amazing workshop!"

We're still allowing people to join until Tue, Oct 21st at 4:30pm'ish PDT... So if you'd like to jump in, please do so ASAP. Please buy at the level you can afford. All classes are recorded, we have handouts, and a Community Forum for classmates. Also included is LIVE Group Coaching calls. Check the comments for more info.

Got compatibility? Fall in love TOO FAST? Ever climb unknowingly onto the "Relationship Escalator" and have that New Rel...
10/13/2025

Got compatibility? Fall in love TOO FAST? Ever climb unknowingly onto the "Relationship Escalator" and have that New Relationship Energy f*ck up the rest of your life?!⁠
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If you or someone you know has ever fallen in love too fast or grown too attached to someone too soon, then this workshop series will change your life!⁠
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Falling in love or getting attached too soon can be a fun natural high but it also can bring all sorts of stress and anxiety into getting to know someone. That stress and anxiety can make some people avoidant (push the connection away) or anxious (cling to it for dear life).⁠
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Familiar with this pattern? You're not alone! Join Misha Bonaventura, myself, and over 300 amazing people for six, mind-blowing weeks of nerding out... We are here to tell you: Falling in love doesn't have to create chaos and destruction!⁠
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It's possible to create secure connections, even if you're just having a casual fling or in that critical time of getting to know someone! The fact is, in the "New Relationship Energy" phase you don't actually know each other that well… But what do you do about it to engender healthier outcomes AND get to have the fun and adventure you seek?⁠
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Join us for From Premature Attachment to Slut Secure! Live Q&A/Coaching Calls are starting in just TWO DAYS! Check out the comments for links to get started!!!!

10/10/2025

The Venn diagram of Compatibility is BACK! And this time, we’re going over the bottom half the the diagram…

šŸ—“ Availability: Do you even have time for this Relationship?

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šŸ¤— Self-Expression: What does your self-expression within relationships look like?

Answering these two questions will get you even closer to the answering the big question of ā€œIs this even a good idea?ā€

Ask yourself these questions & more at the From Premature Attachment to Slut Secure workshop with me & Misha from SoulPlay Festivals! Learn more at my

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10/09/2025

Do you find yourself falling in love too fast?

Than this Venn Diagram of Compatibility might be the tool for YOU! šŸ™‹

You get the hot hot hot fire of s/xual chemistry - then - you craft a narrative in your head! ā€œThis person is the one! They’re my soulmate - I’ve found them!ā€

When the s-xual chemistry between you & another person is soooo good, your brain easily futurecast what we wish would happen with this person!

Not to fear - you are not alone in this brain trickery! Join me, Misha from SoulPlay Festivals and others like you and go from premature attachment to ! Click the link in my bio to learn more šŸ”—

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10/08/2025

The Venn Diagram of Compatibility consists of these 4 things:
šŸ’„ S-xual Chemistry
šŸ—£Narrative
šŸ—“ Availability
šŸ¤— Self-Expression

So what happens when some or most of these 4 areas don’t align in your current hookup/relationship/partnership/etc. - ā€œIs this even a good idea?ā€

If you find yourself asking this question, it might be time to head to my and check out my workshop with Misha from SoulPlay Festivals

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10/07/2025

This Compatibility Venn Diagram might be having its way with you… but wait! There’s a chance to rid yourself of this problem!

Misha from SoulPlay Festivals & I are hosting just the class for you šŸ‘ØšŸ¼ā€šŸ«šŸ‘©šŸ»ā€šŸ«

There’s still time to sign up and solve this Relationship Compatibility Riddle 🧩 Learn more about our 6-week course at my link in bio!

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10/06/2025

Want to reap all the benefits of s/xual community, while also healthily getting your needs met? šŸ˜›

Misha from SoulPlay Festivals and I want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’ve been wishing for, so we created a class for exactly that!

In our From Premature to Slut Secure class, we will share how to:
🧠 Reach a deeper understanding of how works
🚫 Avoid Premature attachment and lessen it’s hold on your heart
šŸ’¦ Foster & maintain security in all of your juicy connection

During our 6 weeks of work together, we will host breakout rooms, coaching calls and Q+A sessions, while also providing recorded classes that teach you all the fundamentals to being a 🄰

Does this sound like the class for you? Learn more here: https://bit.ly/slutsecure

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Would you like to join yours truly and the amazing Wilrieke Sophia for a weekend of exploration into s*xy techniques, wi...
10/06/2025

Would you like to join yours truly and the amazing Wilrieke Sophia for a weekend of exploration into s*xy techniques, with LIVE explicit demos, and space to practice?

From Wilrieke's post...

The lovely and well-known seggs educator ReidAboutS*x (USA) is traveling to Utrecht once again to offer these events with me. Combining knowledge, experience, and tons of humour, each time participants leave with enthusiastic reviews.

Last year, participants for the sold-out one-day version of Show 'n Tell, then Try Practicum (happening THIS Friday and Saturday) begged us to make this into a full two-day event, with more space, more fun techniques (for all genders and body constellations!), and more time to play.

Here we go! (Keep reading to learn about the entire weekend full of events and experiences...)

✦ October 10-11 (daytime), Utrecht, Reid Mihalko & Wilrieke: Show ’n Tell, then Try Practicum

A truly unique two-day, clothing-optional workshop for people with some prior Red Play Party experience, where you’ll learn er0tic touch and intimacy skills through live demos and hands-on practice. Whether you’re solo or partnered, this is your chance to gain confidence, explore pleasure techniques, and receive supportive guidance in a playful, consent-centered space.

This is a clothes-optional, two-day, immersive experience in pleasure, presence, and play — all grounded in deep consent and trauma-awareness. We blend lecture, live demos, partner/solo practices, and time for questions & integration. You’ll see real bodies, real touch, real moments — and get support in bringing it into your own pleasure life.

🌈 Open to all genders, orientations, bodies & relationship styles. Practice solo, with a partner, or find someone to explore with on-site (no guarantees, though — we support but don’t matchmaker!).

šŸ› ļø What You'll Learn:
āœ”ļø Tools to track arousal, stay present & read bodies
āœ”ļø Sensual touch, oral techniques, and pleasure mapping
āœ”ļø Slow & mindful activation of pelvic pleasure pathways
āœ”ļø Prostate play, strap-on confidence, and more
āœ”ļø How to play together without pressure
āœ”ļø Tips for turning ā€œoopsā€ moments into connection Every demo is followed by optional Try Time — guided, supported, or simply witnessed.

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Official page of s*x and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of http://ReidAboutS*x.com and @ReidAboutS*x on social media.

Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutS*x.com, Relationship10x.com, and S*x10xOnline.com helps adults and college students create more self-esteem, self-confidence and greater health and satisfaction in and out of the bedroom using an inspiring mixture of humor, keen insight, and comprehensive s*xual health information.

Using humor, insight and solid information, Reid appeals to audiences of all orientations, backgrounds, ages, and identities. He’s one of the only male s*x and relationship experts touring the country today who can speak pragmatically to nearly all areas of s*xual self-expression, intimacy, dating and relating. Reid’s mission is to give men and women new tools to transform their love lives into fulfilling, satisfying, and sustainable expressions of self.I

n early 2018, some very brave people came forward sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid’s apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability. Going forward, Reid’s projects and appearances will include pointing people towards resources and experts on restorative and transformative justice-based accountability processes.