02/19/2026
They say love is easy when itโs right but they forget to mention this: The right person still disagrees with you. The right relationship still hits rough patches. The green flag isnโt avoiding conflict. Itโs this: You can bring your full self to the table and they stay. You can get it wrong and they donโt make you feel like a burden. You want to repair, not win. This kind of safety is what actually builds long-term love. Not walking on eggshells. Not being โlow maintenance.โ Not hiding how you feel. So if youโve ever been told youโre โtoo muchโโฆ this is your reminder: The right person doesnโt need you to shrink. They want all of you. Tag your safe space. Save this for the days you forget what healthy love really looks like. This is for educational purposes only and not to be misconstrued a psychotherapy.