01/29/2026
“Be a filter, not a container” they say. Sounds lovely- how?? You don’t have to do this perfectly, you just have to do it. Range isn’t just about what you can hold, it’s about how well you can let go. We need rituals more than ever.
1. The Sensory Reset
What is it? A sharp, physical hit to the senses paired with somatic shakes. It’s a full-system reboot for your brain and body.
How to use it: Keep a bottle of citrus oil, a pack of extra-strong mints, or sour candy at your desk. Pop one between sessions. While that’s hitting your system, shake your arms out vigorously while taking 3 deep, intentional breaths. Finally, stand up and sit back down to physically “re-land” in your space.
Why it works: Therapy is heavy cognitive work. To reset, you have to get out of your head and back into your body. Strong scents or tastes trigger the trigeminal nerve, effectively “clearing the palate” of your nervous system. The somatic shaking releases built-up cortisol so the last session’s energy doesn’t bleed into the next.
2. The Box Breath + Body Boundary
What is it? A deliberate psychological closing of the file. Create a container.
How to use it: One cycle of Box Breathing (Inhale 4, Hold 4, Exhale 4, Hold 4). As you exhale, visualize yourself physically closing a heavy book or locking a filing cabinet.
Why it works: It signals to your prefrontal cortex that the “work” for that specific human is paused. It honors their story by keeping it in its own container.
3. The Peripheral Pivot
What is it? A visual “softening” of your focus.
How to use it: Stand up and look out the window at the farthest point possible for 30 seconds. If you’re in a windowless office, let your gaze go soft and try to see the walls on both sides of you without moving your eyes.
Why it works: Narrow focus (staring at a screen/face) is linked to high-arousal states. Panoramic vision naturally lowers your heart rate and tells your brain: “We are safe, and we are off the clock for 60 seconds.”