12/04/2025
There is a lot of stress being a surgeon. Only in the past five years since the pandemic have people been talking about it. It’s about time! We need to take care of ourselves mentally, or we won’t be able to help others.
I have always played guitar. Acoustic, old stuff, sang a bit. I found it a good release. Didn’t have the confidence to play much in public.
Then one day, I was taking care of a patient who got hit by a car. Acute ACL/MCL Repair. Quick recovery. Perfect outcome. He was a lead guitarist for multiple bands. I asked him to show me some riffs on electric. We jammed for 3 hours. What fun! He told me, “Doc, it’s much more fun to play in a band,” so I asked him to be in my band. Why not? Two weeks later, another patient returned to thank me for his successful rotator cuff repair. He told me that he had been a drummer on Broadway for 35 years! So, I asked him if he wanted to be in my band. One of my singers, broke her collarbone. So, I asked her to be in my band.
And so it went. My band’s called Dr. D & The Repaired Men.
Seriously. That’s the actual lineup. Patients/players have come and gone, but the common thread is that they (or their wives recently) have all been repaired. Every one of them had something fixed or replaced by me. Every one worked their way back to the life they loved, including playing or singing.
Over the years, the band has gotten bigger and better. We play around the city, and my friends help me to raise money to support my research so I can better help others. And the research helps other docs to better help others. My first bandmate was right. It is much more fun playing with others in a band.
What surprised me most wasn’t the music. It was the reminder that the people you help to heal often become part of your own story too. Some surgeons end up with trophies or plaques. I ended up having fun with friends who make music with me.