12/20/2025
“Daddy, what did you do before you had me?”
I came out in the 90s, at a time when being gay didn’t come with a lot of examples of this life. No roadmap. No certainty that this would ever be possible.
And yet—here we are.
Being your dad is exactly where I was always meant to land.
Not the life I was told to expect. Turns out the dream just looked different than I was told it would.