10/25/2025
Often, violence is unpredictable and nearly impossible to prevent. First, a random, normal interaction with a stranger, then an attack that would be challenging to defend against.
While we don't know what happened, or what words were said, this could happen to any one of us. Perhaps we can use this tragedy as a reminder that the words "I'm sorry, my bad" can go a long way to diffuse a potential situation and that even good actions, and words, may not be enough.
Many years ago a good friend of mine was leaving a bar in Scottsdale and there was a fight out front. He wasn't involved in it, and was walking away from the area, when he was hit from behind, causing him to fall backwards and hitting his head on the curb. It fractured a couple of cervical vertebrae and severed his spinal cord, leaving him as a low level quadriplegic. Fate may find you.
Your Defense is Personal
TJ Pizzitola, 29, was one month away from becoming a father. Police say he was killed after a suspect blindsided him and punched him from behind.