I Had Cancer

10/29/2025

Meet Lilly Ribner, a Stage I Triple-Negative Breast Cancer survivor, mom of two, advocate, and someone still learning how to piece together a beautiful, meaningful life after cancer.

"When I first found my lump, life already felt like it was spinning with change. We had just moved from Oregon to California to be closer to family. I’d left my corporate HR job of twelve years because I was completely burned out and craving something that felt more authentic. Around the same time, my mom was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. And then, out of nowhere, cancer joined the mix."

Meet Lilly Ribner, a Stage I Triple-Negative Breast Cancer survivor, mom of two, advocate, and piecing together a life after cancer.

06/26/2025

Thank you Leah Alexis for constantly sharing your story and raising awareness about skin cancer!

“Seven summers ago, she was soaking in the season like any other—warm days, sun-kissed skin, and no reason to think anything was wrong.

But beneath the surface, something was quietly growing.

Cancer had already begun to take root on her chest, completely unnoticed; the deadliest type of skin cancer, melanoma.

There were no warning signs, no dramatic moment of discovery—just the slow, silent progression of something that would change her life forever.

Looking back now, it’s hard not to wonder how different things might have been if she had known.

But hindsight doesn’t change the past—it fuels the mission to protect others from the same silent danger.”

06/18/2025

IHadCancer is pleased to be a Community Partner on Cancer and Careers 15th Annual National Conference on Work & Cancer, being held virtually on June 27th! This FREE online event explores the complexities patients and survivors face as they balance their cancer treatment and recovery with work. Topics include balancing treatment and work, disclosure decisions, job search, using artificial intelligence strategically, building physical and mental resilience, and more. CEs/PDCs available.

Details & Registration at http://www.cancerandcareers.org/conference

06/03/2025

"My reflections… my feelings as I went through what I felt may well have been the last time I saw anything."

Random acts of kindness have the power to change lives., Random acts of kindness have the power to change lives.

06/02/2025

"As weird, atypical, and abnormal as this sounds, cancer was one of the best things that have ever happened to me. It taught me what it meant to be a fighter, to face something head-on and give everything you have towards a singular goal. I grew up more in those 18 months than I had in my entire 18 years leading up to my diagnosis because I had to learn to live even when I felt like I was dying."

I am one of about 4,800 people diagnosed with some form of cancer every day in the United States., I am one of about 4,800 people diagnosed with some form of cancer every day in the United States.

06/01/2025

"I had the MRI and returned home, not expecting to hear any results for a few days. That same day around noon, I got a call from my doctor saying that the results had shown a “nodule” in a very dangerous spot. I was told that I needed to get to the emergency room for another MRI immediately. This news was paralyzing to my entire body. "

Day that I found out that I had a brain tumor., Day that I found out that I had a brain tumor.

05/31/2025

"My doctor at the time listened to my heart and jumped out of his chair. “Are you okay?! Would you like some water?! I don’t mean to startle you… but I need to get a nurse in here to be sure I know what I am hearing”. He went and got the nurse. She listened to my heartbeat and asked if I needed to lay down. “No! I just want to know what’s going on!”, I responded. "

18 things I wish I knew before & after I got diagnosed with B Cell Non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma at 17 years old and fresh out of high school., I got diagnosed with B Cell Non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma when I was 17 years old and fresh out of high school.

05/30/2025

"Lymphoma? No. Cancer happened to other people."

Tests revealed Mantle Cell Lymphoma (MCL), a rare and aggressive form of the disease., Tests revealed Mantle Cell Lymphoma (MCL), a rare and aggressive form of the disease.

05/29/2025

"I tried to go to the grocery store but started to have a panic attack while waiting in line. What was chemo going to be like? Will I need radiation therapy? Will I need surgery? How long did I have to live? To make matters worse, I'd received a layoff notice from my work earlier that year. So now I was going to lose my job only a few weeks after starting cancer treatment. I went through cycles of near rage and panic in the days leading up to my meeting with the oncologist. "

You have cancer. It was non-Hodgkin's lymphoma., You have cancer. It was non-Hodgkin's lymphoma.

05/28/2025

"That’s the thing about the c-word, it doesn’t care. It doesn’t care about the plans you have, the people you love, your hopes and dreams. It only cares about one thing: growing."

A mass in my colon and “many” spots on my liver. He said it was cancer, and we were looking at stage four., A mass in my colon and “many” spots on my liver. He said it was cancer, and we were looking at stage four.

05/27/2025

"This is where my cancer story begins. At 14, my budding teenage life was shaken by a brain tumor diagnosis. I didn’t even know what the word “cancer” initially entailed. After my diagnosis but before my impending surgery, I asked my mom, “So, will I be able to go on the youth group trip in a couple of days?” I had no idea what was coming and was blissfully unaware of what being diagnosed with cancer actually meant."

At 14, my budding teenage life was shaken by a brain tumor diagnosis. I didn’t even know what the word “cancer” initially entailed., At 14, my budding teenage life was shaken by a brain tumor diagnosis. I didn’t even know what the word “cancer” initially entailed.

04/29/2025

What 5 words do you have to say to cancer today? "You can't steal my JOY!" - Heather