02/06/2026
👉🏼2 years ago I was deep in my work around visibility. I knew I had wounds around being SEEN and fully owning myself as a healer and leader in my work.
Every-time I saw a peer celebrating a big accomplishment that had to do with their work in the wellness space, instead of feeling joy for them, I felt a deep feeling of JEALOUSY.
My thoughts would spiral to… “it comes so easy for them.”
“Why hasn’t it happened for me yet?”
“Im more qualified than they are.”
“When is my time going to come?”
“Look at them celebrating themselves..that’s so selfish.”
👏🏼At my core I knew that this had nothing to do with the other person, yet the feelings inside of me felt SO REAL that I couldn’t be in their space…so I unfollowed.
Little did I know that all of these feelings I had were unmet parts of me that so desperately wanted a voice.
🔥These people were a MIRROR for what I truly desired.
They pressed on the exact parts that I wasn’t meeting me.
I’m so grateful to say that now I celebrate the HECK out of those rising, because I now CELEBRATE ME!
I see those rising and think to myself they are showing me what’s possible just by being near them.
I now realize that if you feel a hinge of jealousy…it’s not an indication to bash, to shame, to reject...
THIS IS THE MOMENT for you to ask yourself what is this triggering within me? What desire is there…what part wants to be EXPRESSED.
Jealousy can be your greatest teacher if you choose to listen.
If this resonated for you SAVE THIS POST. It’s a constant reminder in this crazy world of only seeing everyone’s highlight reels. 🤍🙏🏼