04/14/2026
Being Bald in the Wild: NYC (the good, the bad, and the ugly)⬇️
I started the “being bald in the wild” series to show that you can show up bald, despite may what happen. My goal is to transparently share what happens as I simply exist bald. Truthfully, most of the time, nothing crazy happens beyond a few stares. However, sometimes other things do happen… and that was the case this past weekend. So, I am going to share it honestly! I share not to scare anyone from going out bald if this is a goal you have for yourself, but only sharing the positives is simply not authentic or true to reality.
As I was walking down a street, a child smacked my arm while saying “big head”. This was late in the day & honestly, my emotional capacity to brush it off was not there. Also, I have NEVER had a child interaction like that. It is rare that I have new experience after all these years with hair loss. Typically, my interactions with kids is that they are curious & not intentionally rude. I have never had a kid be so intentionally rude AND touch me.
I quickly turned around & said “where are your parents” and did not see any adults around. I was prepared to say something to them. Unfortunately, it’s a reminder that most parents do not teach their kids that it is inappropriate to comment on someone’s body (and in this instance, also inappropriate to hit someone). It didn’t matter to me that it was a kid, I was genuinely so upset & taken back.
And it is okay to be upset when these things happen!! Pretending I was okay with it would have not done me any good. Truthfully, I am still upset even just thinking back to it because it was an aggressive unexpected interaction.
So yeah, please teach your kids they shouldn’t comment on someone’s body or hit strangers :)